Understand your sexuality
Reduce confusion
Make informed choices
Sex coaching grounded in education, normalization, and compassionate conversation.
If sex, dating, or relationships feel confusing, you’re not broken.
Many people struggle with intimacy, desire, or connection not because they’re doing something wrong, but because most of us were never taught clear, accurate information about how sex and relationships actually work.
We inherit myths, silence, and unrealistic expectations, then blame ourselves when things feel hard. Coaching offers a chance to step back, get oriented, and understand what’s really going on.
A calm, educational approach to sex and relationships
My work is built around three core principles:
Education
Clear, medically accurate information about sex, desire, communication, and the body.Normalization
Reducing shame by understanding what’s common, contextual, and human.Agency
Supporting you in making choices that align with your values, rather than prescribing who or how you should be.
This is not about quick fixes or performance. It’s about clarity, self-trust, and sustainable change.
Who I work with
I work with individuals and couples who want a more grounded, informed relationship with sex and intimacy.
My practice currently focuses primarily on men in relationships with women, or men who want to be in those relationships. I am also actively expanding my work to include queer, disabled, and intersectional perspectives, and I approach all clients with curiosity, respect, and care.
If you’re looking for scripts, tricks, or pressure-driven transformation, this may not be the right fit. If you’re looking to understand yourself better and move forward with intention, you’re welcome here.
Together We Can Work On
Couple’s Concerns
Whether you’re navigating a recurring challenge, wanting to try something new, or hoping to deepen an existing connection, coaching can help you understand patterns, improve communication, and make changes that feel mutual and sustainable.
Dating
Modern dating can feel exhausting and discouraging. Coaching focuses on mindset, communication, and self-understanding rather than tricks or formulas, helping dating feel clearer and less draining.
Enhanced Pleasure
Coaching can be a place to express curiosity about expanding pleasure or exploring interests that fall outside the mainstream, such as kink, power dynamics, or other alternative lifestyles.
Hi, I’m Kincaid.
I became a sex coach after realizing that much of the confusion I experienced around sex and relationships wasn’t personal failure. It was the result of misinformation, silence, and unrealistic cultural expectations.
As a Certified Sex Coach, my work is grounded in medically accurate sexuality education and compassionate conversation. I am also engaged in learning about the social sciences and how social systems shape our lived experiences. I care deeply about helping people understand sex in ways that are accurate, human, and shame-reducing.
I am friendly to clients from all walks of life, including queer, kinky, nonmonogamous, heteronormative, and nonheteronormative clients, alike. My role isn’t to tell you who to be. It’s to help you make informed choices that align with your values.
“Kincaid taught me so much about a subject I thought I was already an expert on: myself!”
— M. J.
Curious if sex coaching is a good fit?
A free 15-minute discovery call gives you space to ask questions, get oriented, and decide whether working together makes sense for you.
There’s no pressure and no obligation.